Dear Human2011. I am sorry to hear your story. Very sad. You are trying your best to compromise and resolve the situation but you are stuck with this girl now. Stay calm. Giving in is always a wrong approach. Girls and babies always make others dance on their tunes. They see how far can you be stretched. Only one suggestion: be quiet and be peaceful. Be committed to your work/career. Focus and enhance your skills. Thank god you do not have child yet.