Dear Mr SKK,
On this child support issue i would be happy to put my comments and as he is male child till the age of 7 court can ask you to let the child with her only. but after 7 curt will see who is in better position to take care of child.. for that you have to prove many things like she is not taking care of your grandson, she is living in adultary, she is cruel to your grandson.. for all this you can hire private detectives and collec enough proofs in next 4 years. even if you ahve any proofs that your son and wife is suppose to take care of child even before divorce it will add more imapact.
regarding other questions see respective opinions.
1. No. she can’t claim anything from your property.on in india also.
2. No. She can’t clain any money from your income. it’s purely your son’s income.
3. certainly, this has to be done without delay.. if you were live when your grandson is back in your family again you can change the will.
4. she can file 498a and can blame that you have asked for dowry.. but may i know since how long they are seperaated in terms of judiciary?? if it’s more than 3 years than she can’t file 498a, she has to add more colors to her false story. and even if she does that nothing is gonna to you and your wife untill and unless you are planning to visit india.. if yo are not gonna to come here then nothing will happen. Even most of the 498a cases after divorce indicates that she had filled it to harrass you and you can easily dischare or quash it and file defamation on her , where max punishment is 7 years. < not sure, cause somewhere i have read it as 10 years>.
Hope you are satisfied with my answer on this front..
If your son is in india why don’t you ask him to Join SIFF? even I request you to go through below website.