answer: NO- In that case, I will give him counter proposal to stay with me for the sake of child. that would be the best interest of the child if father and mother is with the child.
if the father borrows or steals he is still going to give uncertain future to the child. mother too can provide luxurious life to the child by unethical ways. but is it right?? will your principles or conscious permit.
even in animals new borns are raised by mother in the early years of life. don’t you think it is against nature.
I will not accept such proposal till the child himself says without any influence. If father does not care for childs maintenance then I will myself take care of the childs need and provide whatever best i can. at the same time allow father to meet the child whenever he want irrespective whether he gives maitenance or his marital status.