child cannot be divided. I am very much with the law of the land which says one who can take best care of the child should be given physical custody and one who does not get should be giving visitation rights. but the child who is less than 5 years should be with mother . for a child who is above 5 years it is debatable who can take best care. it would be good if third person evaluates. such as child welfare organisation or NGO who are unbaised. wishes of the child should be also be taken into consideration.