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MY WIFE HAS OFFICIALLY BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH HAVING PARANOID SCHIZOPHRENIA & BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER BY THE H.O.D. OF D LARGEST GOVT.HOSP. IN MUMBAI. I TRIED STAYING SEPARATELY WITH HER AS SHE PROMISED THAT SHE WILL BECOME AN IDEAL WIFE IF I AGREED. A WEEK AGO I WAS FORTUNATE ENOUGH TO OVERHEAR MY WIFE’S CONVERSATION WITH HER CRIMINAL MINDED MOTHER. IT WAS A CONSPIRACY TO USING PRO-WIFE-LAWS TO INTIMIDATE & ENSLAVE ME (& HENCE MY PARENTS). I TOOK HER SIM AWAY & FILED AN NC THAT EVENING ITSELF AGAINST MY MIL UNDER 506 WITHOUT MAKING HER AWARE.

I HAVE VIDEO FOOTAGE OF MY WIFE PUTTING A BURNING MATCHSTICK ON ME, THREATNING TO BURN ME ALIVE, TRYING 2 STRANGULATE ME, PULLING MY HAIR TILL BLOOD DRIPPED, HITTING ME WITH HER SANDAL & WHATEVER CAME IN HER HAND,SHOWERING D FILTHIEST ABUSES KNOWN…. AFTER I RETURNED HOME (AT LEAST A SIMPLE 323-326 CASE).

NEXT DAY, I SHOWED THE VIDEO TO D POLICE. AND GUESS WHAT THOSE SOB’s IN PS MUST HAVE SAID? ” WE CANNOT TAKE ANY ACTION ON THE BASIS OF D VIDEO…AS EVIDENCES HAVE TO BE SHOWN IN D COURT, NOT HERE. BUT, IF UR WIFE (WITH PROVEN MENTAL PROBS) COMES & EVEN COMPLAINTS (WITHOUT ANY EVIDENCE AGAINST U), WE HAVE BEEN ORDERED 2 ARREST EVERY1 WHOSE NAME APPEARS ON D FIR. IF IT WAS SHE WHO WOULD HAVE SHOWN US SUCH INCRIMINATING EVIDENCES, U WOULD HAVE BEEN INSIDE BY NOW FOR LONG..” HE ALSO CALLED MY WIFE TO THE PS WHEN (AS USUAL FOR WOMEN) SHE CRIED (WOLF) THAT I AM TORTURING HER, BLAH, BLAH,…

I THEN SHOWED THEM ALL RELATED JUDGEMENTS & POLICE CIRCULARS WITH CRPC AMMENDMENTS & RTI COPY TO PROVE THAT D AMMENDMENTS HAVE BEEN IMPLEMENTED. I TOLD THEM THAT IF HE ARRESTS ANYBODY UNDER 498A WITHOUT INVESTIGATING, HE WILL BE RISKING CONTEMPT OF COURT.

D INSPECTOR INQUIRED WITH ME ABOUT D AMMENDMENTS IN CRPC & THEN ASKED IF I AM AN ADVOCATE. WHEN I SAID NO, D BAS$#@% SAYS THAT THEORY & PRACTISE R 2 DIFFERENT THINGS. D DISCUSSION WAS MOSTLY CORDIAL. BUT FINALLY, AFTER I INSISTED, HE ACCEPTED MY APPLICATION & GAVE ME A STAMPED RECEIPT, WITHOUT REGISTERING AN NC. (MY PARENTS HAD ALREADY GOT D RECEIPT OF A SIMILAR APPLICATION 4M OUR DIFFERENT LOCAL PS). HE ASKED ME 2 LEAVE HER AT HER PARENT’S PLACE AT DEHRADUN, WHICH I DID.

AFTER RETURNING, I AM GETTING THREATENING SMS’es WITH WILD ALLEGATIONS. I FILED A 2ND NC AGAINST HER MOM UNDER 506 IN MY LOCAL PS (OLD HOME). NOW, I AM 100% SURE I WANT 2 GO FOR A DIVORCE (UNDER CRUELTY & SCHIZOPHRENIA) OR ANNULMENT (IF I AM LUCKY) WITH HUGE AMOUNT OF EVIDENCES WHICH I COLLECTED OVER 10 MONTHS & EVEN B4 MARRIAGE. I PLAN 2 1ST FILE 4 AB & THEN 4 DIVORCE. 1CE THEY FILE A 498A (BY DEFAULT), I AM PLANNING 2 BOMBARD THOSE PARASITES WITH GENUINE COUNTER CASES WITH OVERWHELMING EVIDENCES.

BUT I AM CONFUSED & AM SEEKING ADVICE ON D FOLL.-

1). SHOULD I –

A).1ST FILE 4 AB NOW & THEN 4 DIVORCE (B4 SHE RETURNS)? ……………[AS ADVISED BY MY LAWYER],

. FILE 4 DIVORCE NOW (ANYWAYS), PREPARE & KEEP AB APPLICATION AT HAND, WAIT FOR FIR, &THEN IMMEDIATELY SUBMIT IT IN COURT AFTER KNOWING D SECTIONS AGAINST US?……………[AS ADVISED BY ANOTHER recommended LAWYER],

C). 1ST FILE 4 AB NOW & THEN WAIT FOR HER TO FILE FOR DIVORCE (IF SHE RETURNS, I SHOULD RENT A SLUM HOUSE 2 STAY WITH HER)? ……………[AS ADVISED BY many incl. a SENIOR SIFF MEMBER], (I am against this idea of using a long rope, as I cannot tolerate her atrocities any longer – why should I punish myself by staying in a slum. Furthermore, d longer she stays with me, d stronger her 498a case will be against me. many say, “ never tell in court or in PS that u don’t want 2 stay with ur wife”. But, I have overwhelming proofs of her cruelty on me & my parents. I can prove that its impossible 2 stay with her. I also have a phone rec. now, in which she demands that I cut off all relations with my parents, will she return),

D). 1ST FILE 4 AB NOW & THEN 4 DIVORCE ALONG WITH A PRE-EMPTIVE BLITZKRIEG OF GENUINE CASES WITH OVERWHELMING EVIDENCES. (B4 SHE RETURNS)?

E). ESCAPE THE GUTTER (MORE COMMONLY KNOWN AS D ‘GREAT’ INDIAN JUSTICE SYSTEM), & PERSUE MY STUDIES ABROAD & SETTLE THERE ANYHOW. (I HAVE ALREADY GOT MY ADMISSION). IF I HAVE 2 VISIT INDIA, I WOULD VISIT VIA KATMANDU ROUTE.

2). WHAT KIND OF EVIDENCES CAN BE SUBMITTED IN AB APPLICATION? eg- NC’s, RECEIPT OF APPLICATION 4M PS, MY WIFE’S ADMISSION OF OUR INNOCENCE (VIA – AUDIO, VIDEO, HER LETTERS 2 HER MOM, HER CALLS 2 HER FRIENDS & RELATIVES, WITNESSES – OUR NEIGHBORS, ETC.), EARLIER LETTER FROM POLICE 4 A FALSE COMPLAINT 4M HER MOM, REPORT 4M D WOMAN’S ORGNZN, ETC. I’VE READ EARLIER THAT A JUDGE REFUSED 2 LOOK AT AUDIO, VIDEO EVIDENCES AT AB STAGE SAYING THAT THEY R CONSIDERED ONLY DURING TRIAL.

3). DOES D EVIDENCES SUBMITTED TO COURT DURING APPLICATION OF AB, SHARED WITH D OPPOSITE PARTY? (if yes, then I need 2 be careful about not revealing much initially).

4). WHAT IF MY WIFE RETURNS 2 LIVE WITH ME AFTER I FILE 4 DIVORCE? DOES SHE STILL HAVE D RIGHT 2 STAY WITH ME & MY PARENTS ?

5). I HAVE READ EARLIER THAT NO AB IS GRANTED 4 406. THEN 4 WHICH SECTIONS MUST I APPLY 4 AB IN ADDN 2 498A, 37 & 326?

6). HOW MANY DAYS AFTER D FIR DOES COUNSELING STARTS AT CAW (I KNOW THAT ITS FOOLISH 2 ENTER IN CAW CELL WITHOUT AN AB OR NOTICE BAIL).

7). IF I GET A CALL 4M D POLICE ABOUT MY WIFE’S FIR, SHOULD I –

GO UNDERGROUND & SEND MY LAWYER 2 COLLECT INFO. OR

PERSONALLY SHOW UP THERE (KEEPING IN MIND D CRPC AMMENDMENTS)? MY WIFE’S FAMILY IS POOR (THEY SHOULDN’T B ABLE 2 BRIBE D COPS)….BUT THEY R HUNGRY 4 EASY MONEY…

. I’VE BEEN TOLD THAT AFTER I APPLY 4 AB, D POLICE CANNOT ARREST US TILL MY AB IS REJECTED. IS IT TRUE?

9). WHAT IS D PROCEDURE 4 TRANSCRIPTION OF AUDIO, VIDEO EVIDENCE? I AM SPENDING MOST OF MY TIME NOW IN DOING IT..

THANKING YOU IN ANTICIPATION OF A QUICK & DETAILED REPLY…!