think what is best for you and your dear ones. take advice from different people but decision you have to make. don’t do anything for which you will repent later. remember we have one life to lead. time will not wait for anyone… you will not remain young forever…divorce is inevitable in your case and you have to maintain her for life(if she is not able to maintain) as per law. so take a final stand and move on in your life. no body is going to gain from this litigations.