The way you replied for all the questions is the very source of all arguments. All the girls who get married start demanding rights before fulfilling their duties. Ask such girls to fulfil their duties and the magic will automatically happen. the girls these days expect all the family members to change as per her desires but actually never tries to win their hearts. Of course, you are now going to say it otherwise that why should the boy’s family not do the same. I think rather than changing 10 people in a family why not to change oneself and avoid all the ego arguments. I think Rekha ji, the girlish qualities are not there in 498a girls and therefore try and force their wishes by threatening… please rekha ji, try to see other side of the picture as well, and come out of that bechari girl frame of mind.